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dear internet,

I'm in a relationship with a boy who lives 6 hours away, he is still at the college which I just recently graduated. After a stressful weekend, I was talking with another friend of mine who lives near the college and goes to the same parties. She is a trustworthy and honest person and holds no ill will toward us. So, talking to her today, she told me that while at the party he had been drunk and had made out with a girl who I knew he liked, but who he never actually asked out. (She has her own boy to sleep with who was coming to visit the next day). When I talked to him, he didn't mention the incident, but instead complained that he couldn't remember most of what happened. So here is my problem, how do I deal with this? I am incredibly forgiving in general, but sometimes it's just . . . difficult. I'm also having problems because this isn't the first time it has been a problem.