re: getting over it by anonymous questioner

January 22, 2009 02:27 PM

dear internet,

I fell into something of a relationship with a girl I was seeing, got kind of jealous when I saw things weren't really going to go anywhere, got over it, really like this girl and thought we could remain friends, hung out a few times, ended up having sex again, and now am quite sure that I don't want to date her, but am longing for some sort of platonic love and a lasting connection. She says she's not ready for a relationship and not over her ex, I've been there and I get that. I went to new york and my feelings dimmed, but upon seeing her again really wanted some basic human affection, which made me question my ability to stay cool. Is it worth it?

results 28 votes

dude, go see your mom, she misses you (2 votes)
 7%
she's just being nice to you, buzz off (1 vote)
 4%
don't hang out with her if she's not giving you sex (1 vote)
 4%
when you find the right people, you need to hang on to them (2 votes)
 7%
stop pretending that you don't think with your dick (5 votes)
 18%
seek barnacle therapy (1 vote)
 4%
what do you expect? she's got complicated feelings too (12 votes)
 43%
you need to get laid somewhere else and then figure it out (4 votes)
 14%
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comments

  • sheepofages says:

    You could have a romanic relationship with someone new and still keep this girl as a friend?

    Jan 25, 2009 02:05 PM
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