re: Boy dilemma, help please! by anonymous questioner

April 03, 2008 01:58 PM

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dear internet,

I met this guy a few months ago. I was at his apartment for a party about a month ago and we ended up making out. Then, last week, I was over at his place again. I hadn't seen or heard from him since then, but he started flirting and we ended up holding hands and hanging out most of the night. But, it has been almost a week and again I have not heard from him. I don't want to push it, because I'm friends with a lot of his friends and I don't want to be embarassed by assuming he is into me if he's not. I just can't seem to get him out of my head. But, he never asks me to hang out. I'm always invited over by one of his roommates. What do I do?

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Stop seeing him. He's not into you and you are just going to get hurt. (7 votes)
 26%
Just wait for the next invite. Even if it takes months, if it is meant to happen it will. (0 votes)
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Go through the roommate to get invited over again and then try to make a casual plan for the next week with him. (7 votes)
 26%
Ask him to go out with you. Guys don't flirt and hold hands with a girl all night unless they're into her. (13 votes)
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comments

  • piggy says:

    sorry to be a pessimist, but i don't think he's into you. if he was, he'd have asked you out by now, rather than just getting away with macking with you whenever he gets the chance.

    Apr 06, 2008 11:35 PM
  • inafish says:

    Whatever you do, do SOMETHING! Don't just hang around and wait fot the guy to make the next move. He seems to be really bad at this, you know?

    Apr 09, 2008 05:00 AM
  • volpone says:

    Don't listen to piggy! They might be right, but I doubt it... He might just be to shy to make a move on you without the dutch courage in his system... You don't want to miss out just 'cause of fear of rejection...

    Apr 24, 2008 08:36 PM
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