re: He apologized for flirting with my friend, is he into me? by anonymous questioner

November 06, 2007 05:03 PM

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dear internet,
Ok, he is my brother's roommate, but I can't help it. He is the most genuine and nicest guy I have ever met in my life and I have really fallen for him. At a party the other day, one of my friends hit on him and I was worried, but later, he came and apologized to me for it, saying he wasn't interested in her. Why did he apologize? Does he like me? Could he ever be interested? How do I tell without making it awkward to hangout at my brother's apartment? Please help!

Oh, and my brother has told me that his roommate is one of two guys he would actually approve of me dating. What do I do?

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Let him know that you are interested, he probably feels the same way. Why else would he apologize for flirting at a party? (10 votes)
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He was probably just worried that you and your brother would be offended by him hitting on a friend, but isn't interested in you. (0 votes)
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Just keep talking to him at parties and wait it out for others signs. (4 votes)
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Ask your brother for his opinion and see if he thinks the roommate could be interested. (9 votes)
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Let it go, all signs lead to awkwardness around your brother and his friends. (0 votes)
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  • littlewolf says:

    Kid, if he comes over to you, apologises, makes this huge effort to explain that he isn't interested in your friend - hell yeah, he really likes you! Why don't you try flirting with him, see where it gets you ;) ? (Preferably not in front of your brother, that might be awkward for all involved). And let us know what happens, please? I, for one, am very curious and crossing all fingers and toes for you :).

    Nov 11, 2007 12:04 PM
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