re: NSFW: Things that go buzz in the night. by anonymous questioner

January 10, 2007 11:13 PM

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Darling Internet,

I am a not-unattractive gal in mid twenties. I have not had a boyfriend in nearly twenty years. I have faith in your ability to do math.

I don't date. Ever.

I'm roughly a Kinsey 2.

I don't have sex with anyone other than myself, but I'm getting really good at it.

I should...

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A. worry. (13 votes)
 35%
B. buy more batteries. (24 votes)
 65%
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  • solitaryascidian says:

    quoting oldgregg from http://dearinter.net/question/1156 : "i swear to god i didn't post this one, guys"

    think on the good side: when you do it with a partner, you'll be able to teach him how you like it.

    Jan 10, 2007 11:38 PM
  • appleblossombeck says:

    That's a really, really good point. Feeling comfortable about sex with themselves is supersexy, I think. Don't worry, buy more batteries as needed, and mostly figure out what it is you really want from sex and relationships. Are you really worried about not being with others, or are you worried about what society would say?

    Jan 11, 2007 12:06 AM
  • sibee says:

    ... definitely not worry! As has been said above, being familiar with what you need and want is the best basis you can possibly have for a sexual relationship. Plus, my experience is that "the one" is someone you will find when you're not looking. Maybe he'll stand next to you browsing the battery shelf ;-)

    Jan 11, 2007 03:46 PM
  • volpone says:

    Like everyone else said. Unless you really want to experience sex with another person... In which case that should be very easy for a "not-unattractive girl in her mid-twenties" (but please pick someone nice, not an egotistical wanker - be the seducer, not the seduced. That normally gives you more chance of not ending up with a "player"). But if you're comfortable as you are, don't worry about it. If you've waited this long, I'd say it's definitely worth waiting for someone worth while to lose your virginity too. I, like JonnyA, didn't have sex until I was 21. And it was soooo worth waiting. Best first sex EVER! Right person, right time. I could've lost it earlier, but somehow I managed to get through all that "get y'self laid" high-school pressure, and then I was just happy to wait. Worth it.

    Anyway, enough about me. It all depends what you want... You could all ways just come and join in the dearinter brazilian-submarine-orgy: http://dearinter.net/question/1165

    Jan 11, 2007 04:54 PM
  • littlewolf says:

    volpone: umm, how many other 'first sex ever' s have you had that you could compare it too?... ;)?

    And congratulations to everyone who doesn't give into peer pressure!

    Jan 14, 2007 06:45 AM
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