get as much as you can in... then using your hand start at the tip (making like a sign language O with your hand) you can pump up and down with your hand using your spit... works wonders.
also if your guy likes it you can suck on his balls and use lube to jack him off. still fun! :)
I'm pretty sure most folks can't fit most entire penises into their mouths... There's nothing unusual there. Unless they can deep-throat, which most folks can't, it seems. Just get as much in as you can, but most of all, try to enjoy it. Getting pleasure is always much better if the giver is enjoying themself too.
Either enclose the tip of the penis with your mouth and use your hand to massage the base of the penis or perhaps look into a product sold by Passion Parties called GiGi, which is a silicon masterbation sleeve. It can be cut to size to accomodate the base of the penis, leaving you free to only have a reasonable amount of his penis in your mouth. With this product, I recommend using a flavored lubrication, which is always fun with oral sex anyway. You can check out http://passionbyelizabeth.yourpassionconsultant.com/ for details or send me a message.
As much as I'm with Johnny on the "hey... details, eek!" sorta thing, here goes...
Definitely go for just the head in your mouth and use your hand(s) to stroke the rest, just like you were going down on him with more in your mouth. Also, having a hand wrapped around gives you the security to control his depth.
My boyfriend is also... well endowed... and until I got the hang of what he likes and what I liked doing, I just asked him. So, yes, ask your boyfriend to tell you what feels good, tell him to suggest how firmly to grip him (all men are different here), and try and find out how he masturbates. If ya'll don't talk about sexual things often, that can be scary, but finding out how someone pleasures themself can give you many clues on what to do.
Annnd, if the whole oral thing still ain't working for you after that, I'd recommend switching mostly to "hand jobs" instead. Those can be fun for both of you, too. Like Volpone said, it's important that BOTH of you enjoy whatever either one of you is doing to/with the other
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get as much as you can in... then using your hand start at the tip (making like a sign language O with your hand) you can pump up and down with your hand using your spit... works wonders.
also if your guy likes it you can suck on his balls and use lube to jack him off. still fun! :)
I'm pretty sure most folks can't fit most entire penises into their mouths... There's nothing unusual there. Unless they can deep-throat, which most folks can't, it seems. Just get as much in as you can, but most of all, try to enjoy it. Getting pleasure is always much better if the giver is enjoying themself too.
Either enclose the tip of the penis with your mouth and use your hand to massage the base of the penis or perhaps look into a product sold by Passion Parties called GiGi, which is a silicon masterbation sleeve. It can be cut to size to accomodate the base of the penis, leaving you free to only have a reasonable amount of his penis in your mouth. With this product, I recommend using a flavored lubrication, which is always fun with oral sex anyway. You can check out http://passionbyelizabeth.yourpassionconsultant.com/ for details or send me a message.
As much as I'm with Johnny on the "hey... details, eek!" sorta thing, here goes...
Definitely go for just the head in your mouth and use your hand(s) to stroke the rest, just like you were going down on him with more in your mouth. Also, having a hand wrapped around gives you the security to control his depth.
My boyfriend is also... well endowed... and until I got the hang of what he likes and what I liked doing, I just asked him. So, yes, ask your boyfriend to tell you what feels good, tell him to suggest how firmly to grip him (all men are different here), and try and find out how he masturbates. If ya'll don't talk about sexual things often, that can be scary, but finding out how someone pleasures themself can give you many clues on what to do.
Annnd, if the whole oral thing still ain't working for you after that, I'd recommend switching mostly to "hand jobs" instead. Those can be fun for both of you, too. Like Volpone said, it's important that BOTH of you enjoy whatever either one of you is doing to/with the other